26 October 2024

XXX Sunday of the Year

LORD, I WANT TO SEE


INTRODUCTORY RITES

Gather as a family/ community; create an environment appropriate for prayer (dress appropriately - switch off your phones...). 
We are conscious that Christ is present not only in the Blessed Sacrament but also in the Scriptures and in our hearts. Even when we are on our own, we remain part of the Body of Christ.
Place lighted candles, a crucifix, and the Bible on a covered table. These remind us of the sacredness of our time of prayer and could help us feel connected with our local worshipping communities.

You may sing or play an appropriate hymn. For instance:
The Sign of the Cross

Greeting and Introductory Words

L: The Lord invites us to the table of his Word: let us bless him for his goodness.
A: Blessed be God forever.

L: Sometimes we feel like blind people groping in the dark, sitting disheartened by the side of the road. We can’t make sense of what’s happening in our lives. We need to turn to Jesus and ask him: “Lord, let me see!” He will restore our eyesight so that we can walk on the road he shows us.

Penitential Rite

L: For our blindness to the Lord and to his action in our lives, we ask his forgiveness.
        Pause

L: Lord Jesus, you consoled and guided those in tears:
Lord, have mercy.
A: Lord, have mercy.
L: Lord Jesus, you called the blind Bartimaeus whom the people were rebuking and silencing:
Christ, have mercy.
A: Christ, have mercy.
L: Lord Jesus, you gave the blind Bartimaeus his sight:
        Lord, have mercy.
A: Lord, have mercy.

L: May almighty God have mercy on us, forgive us our sins,
and bring us to everlasting life.
A: Amen.

Gloria
Opening Prayer

L: Have pity on us, God our Saviour. Grant us grace and courage to cast off our sins and turn to you for healing. Show us in Christ the sure path of salvation and strengthen us to follow him gladly in the way of the gospel, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, God for ever and ever.
A: Amen.

THE LITURGY OF THE WORD

Readings

The readings are those assigned for the day in the Lectionary.
Preferably use a Bible/ Lectionary for reading.


Reading 1    Jeremiah 31:7-9
Psalm         Psalm 126:1-2, 2-3, 4-5, 6
Response    The Lord has done great things for us; we are filled with joy.
                Response 1 or Response 2
Reading 2 Hebrews 5:1-6
Acclamation
                        Alleluia, alleluia.
                        Our Savior Jesus Christ destroyed death
                        and brought life to light through the Gospel.
                  Acclamation
Gospel         Mark 10:46-52
Reflection on the Readings
 
Use one of the following ways to reflect on the readings.

Lectio Divina

Imagine you are with Jesus and his disciples leaving Jericho. What are your thoughts and feelings when you hear Bartimaeus cry out, when you hear Jesus call him, and when you see that he has received his sight?

Sunday Snippets

In Pastor Steven Albertin’s office, hung a modern picture, a maze of colours and shapes. He knew this picture contained some profound artistic message but was unable to figure it out. 
One day, Adam, a kindergartener, came to his office, saw the picture, and asked: “Do you see what I see?” The pastor asked: “Do you see something in that picture? I don’t.” “Pastor, can’t you see Jesus hanging on the cross?”
The pastor stared at the picture, tried to find the image of the crucified Jesus hidden in the maze, but couldn’t. 
Slowly Adam moved his finger along the picture: “There, Pastor, is Jesus’ face, his arms outstretched on the cross.” The image began to appear. There hidden behind the colours and the shapes was the image of the crucified Jesus. 
Adam helped a “blind” pastor to see the suffering messiah.

Like Pastor Albertin, many of us fail to see Jesus in the maze of colours and shapes in our lives, in the suffering in our lives and around us. We need help to see him and to make sense of suffering.

In this Sunday’s gospel, Jesus helps blind Bartimaeus see! 
This healing appears at the end of the section on discipleship in mark’s gospel, in which the theme is suffering. Jesus thrice predicts his passion and death; each time his disciples fail to understand the meaning of suffering in his mission. They are blind. For instance, in the verses preceding this text, Jesus makes the third prediction, and James and John ask to sit beside him in his glory.
Mark uses the healing of Bartimaeus as a device to open the eyes of the disciples to the meaning of suffering. Mark contrasts the disciples with the blind beggar. Jesus puts the same question to Bartimaeus that he put to James and John: “What do you want me to do for you?” James and John wanted to advance themselves; Bartimaeus asks only to see.
Before the encounter with Jesus, Bartimaeus is blind, sitting, on the side of the way. After his encounter, he sees, gets up, and follows Jesus on the way to Jerusalem. Bartimaeus has understood the meaning of suffering in the life of Jesus and of a disciple. He is the paradigm of the ideal disciple.

Like Pastor Albertin in the story, like the disciples of Jesus, we fail to see Jesus as the suffering Messiah, we fail to understand that suffering is an essential part of discipleship. Like Bartimaeus, we sit by the side of the road of life and struggle to make sense of suffering. 
May we, like Bartimaeus, recognize Jesus passing by the way, and call out to him to heal us. May we cast off our cloaks, our false securities and follow Jesus on the way… because it is the only way to life.

Questions to Ponder

Reflect on some (or all) of the following questions:

Reading 1: Is there anyone in my life who just needs the road “levelled out” a little? What can I do to help him/her?

Reading 2: “He is able to deal patiently with the ignorant and erring, for he himself is beset by weakness.” How does awareness of my weakness help me in ministering to others? Does it make me more compassionate/ understanding?

Gospel: Do I accept Jesus as the suffering Messiah? How can I make sense of suffering in his life, in mine and around me? How can I follow Jesus more closely on “the way”?

The Creed

Prayer of the Faithful

L: Let us turn to God in prayer that he may open our eyes to our real needs and those of our Church and world, as we pray: Lord, hear our prayer.

R: For the Church: that we may passionately and continuously call out to Christ for our needs and courageously follow Jesus, the crucified Messiah, on the way of life, we pray…
R: For the world: that the eyes of the world be opened to the suffering of the people of Gaza and Lebanon and that peace be quickly restored to those territories, we pray…
R: For all who help others grow in faith – parents, catechists, and spiritual directors: that God may bless their efforts as they strive to nurture the seeds of faith that God has planted, we pray…
R: For all who are blinded by prejudice: that God may enlighten their hearts and help them recognize the value and dignity of each person, we pray…
R: For commitment to care for our common home: that we may see the beauty and wonder of God’s creation and care for our earth and all its creatures, we pray…
R: For ourselves: that we may not be blind or try to silence those who cry out in pain or seek our assistance, we pray…

L: Father, open our eyes, our hands, and our heart so we can look on this world and on people with the same gentle eyes as you and your Son, Jesus who is Lord for ever and ever.
A: Amen.

SPIRITUAL COMMUNION

The Lord’s Prayer 

Spiritual Communion 

A: Jesus, I know and believe in your real presence in the Most Holy Sacrament of the Eucharist. It is you I desire to love and receive above all things. As I am unable to receive your sacramental presence now, come and be with me in heart and soul. Let my entire self be united with you as I welcome you again and know your loving embrace. Amen.

Post Spiritual Communion Reflection

Jesus,
the blind Bartimaeus kept calling out to you
and refused to let people silence him.

Son of David, have pity on me.
Make me see
with eyes of faith,
the road to follow,
and to recognize you in my life.
Help me and all people to “see” our way
to end the climate crisis;
to end racial injustice, human trafficking, and poverty;
to end violence and oppression.
Give me Bartimaeus’ faith and his sight.

CONCLUDING RITE

Concluding Prayer

L: Our living God, give us the eyes of faith and love to see the mission you have given us in life and the courage and grace to carry it out. Make us also clear-sighted enough to see the needs of people who cry in misery or suffer in silence, that we may bring them your compassion and lead them to you. May we follow Jesus on the way of the cross.
Through Christ our Lord.
A: Amen.

Blessing

L: The Lord bless us, protect us from all evil, and lead us to everlasting life.
A: Amen.

L: Go in the peace of Christ.
A: Thanks be to God.

Conclude with a hymn. For instance:

19 October 2024

XXIX Sunday of the Year

TRUE GREATNESS


INTRODUCTORY RITES

Gather as a family/ community; create an environment appropriate for prayer (dress appropriately - switch off your phones...). 
We are conscious that Christ is present not only in the Blessed Sacrament but also in the Scriptures and in our hearts. Even when we are on our own, we remain part of the Body of Christ.
Place lighted candles, a crucifix, and the Bible on a covered table. These remind us of the sacredness of our time of prayer and could help us feel connected with our local worshipping communities.

You may sing or play an appropriate hymn. For instance:
The Sign of the Cross

Greeting and Introductory Words

L: The Lord invites us to the table of his Word: let us bless him for his goodness.
A: Blessed be God forever.

L: Jesus came among us seeking to serve rather than to be served. He shows us how to live: in a world filled with suffering caused by struggles for position and power, he reminds us that true greatness comes through humble service and suffering. We pray that we may understand and live his teaching on discipleship.
Today is Mission Sunday. The celebration invites us to reflect on the importance of mission work; reminds us that we are one with the Church around the world and that we are all committed to carrying on Christ’s mission in our different situations.

Penitential Rite

L: We ask the Lord to forgive us for the time we have sought power and position.
        Pause

L: Lord Jesus, you came not to be served but to serve:
Lord, have mercy.
A: Lord, have mercy.
L: Lord Jesus, you warn us not to imitate the high and the mighty:
Christ, have mercy.
A: Christ, have mercy.
L: Lord Jesus, you remind us that if we wish to be great we must serve:
        Lord, have mercy.
A: Lord, have mercy.

L: May almighty God have mercy on us, forgive us our sins,
and bring us to everlasting life.
A: Amen.

Gloria
Opening Prayer

L: Glorious God, in Jesus you show us that your will is to save. Grant to us the boldness to desire a place in your kingdom, the courage to drink the cup of suffering, and the grace to find in service the glory you promise. Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, God for ever and ever.
A: Amen.

THE LITURGY OF THE WORD

Readings

The readings are those assigned for the day in the Lectionary.
Preferably use a Bible/ Lectionary for reading.


Reading 1    Isaiah 53:10-11
Psalm         Psalm 33:4-5, 18-19, 20, 22
Response    Lord, let your mercy be on us, as we place our trust in you.
                Response 1 or Response 2
Reading 2 Hebrews 4:14-16
Acclamation
                        Alleluia, alleluia.
                        The Son of Man came to serve
                        and to give his life as a ransom for many.
                  Acclamation
Gospel         Mark 10:35-45
Reflection on the Readings
 
Use one of the following ways to reflect on the readings.

Lectio Divina

Imagine you are with Jesus and his disciples. What are your thoughts and feelings when you hear James and John ask Jesus for places of honour in his kingdom; when you hear Jesus’ admonition to them and to the other ten?

Sunday Snippets

When India became independent, the Defence Minister offered to make General Nathu Singh Commander-in-Chief of the Indian Army. He declined since General K.M. Cariappa was senior and more eligible for the post. The Minister then offered the position to General Rajendrasinhji Jadeja; he declined for the same reason. On 15 January 1949, General Cariappa became the first Indian Commander-in-Chief of the Indian Army.

Generals Singh and Jadeja knew that what matters is not where you sit, but where and how you serve. That is what Jesus teaches his disciples in the gospel… again!
James and John ask Jesus for places of honour in his kingdom. The episode continues the theme of discipleship in the Marcan gospel. Jesus has consistently challenged his disciples with the core values of the kingdom: they are to become like children, like servants; to give up all attachments; to be willing to take up their cross and follow – all this in the context of the passion predictions. After the third prediction, James and John ask for special status!
The other ten are indignant, perhaps, because the brothers beat them to the bargaining spot. Jesus instructs them again that the exercise of power in his kingdom is radically different from the exercise of power in earthly realms; that greatness is through humble service. Their model is Jesus himself. John in his gospel conveys the same message through Jesus’ servile act of washing the feet of his disciples.
The first reading, which is the fourth servant song, gives us another aspect of servant leadership: suffering. 

In the kingdom of God, true greatness comes through service and suffering.
Do I understand Jesus’ teaching on discipleship or do I clamour for position and power? Am I willing to be serve and to be “the slave of all”?

Albert Schweitzer wrote: “I don’t know what your destiny will be, but one thing I know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who have sought and found a way to serve.” May we find happiness in service and suffering.

Questions to Ponder

Reflect on some (or all) of the following questions:

Reading 1: Do I suffer with a loved one who is suffering? Would I take the person’s place if I could? 

Reading 2: Christ can “sympathize with our weaknesses.” Does he completely understand my situation no matter how dense it is? Am I able to understand other people’s weaknesses?

Gospel: What have I done this week to serve those in need? What keeps me from serving God more wholeheartedly?

The Creed

Prayer of the Faithful

L: Let us pray to God who serves us in many ways that we may learn from his Son who came not to be served but to serve: Lord, hear our prayer.

R: For the Church: that we may serve the world by standing for justice and peace and defending the freedom and dignity of the human person, we pray…
R: For the Synod of Bishops: that the participants may open their hearts to the Holy Spirit and participate in furthering the life and mission of the church, we pray…
R: For all who exercise authority: that they may use their authority to free those who are unjustly restrained, call forth the gifts of others, and lead others to wholeness and service, we pray…
R: For all missionaries: that their dedication and sacrifice may bear abundant fruit in bringing many to faith in Christ, we pray…
R: For those who have not yet heard the Gospel: that their hearts may be opened to the message of Christ’s love and salvation., we pray…
R: For ourselves: that God may free us from the bonds of our egos and attachment to power and prestige so that we may make service of others our priority, we pray…

L: God and Father, keep us from the urge to seek positions of honour or power. May we learn from your Son that to be great is to serve others and to use up our lives to give them a chance to live. Through Christ our Lord.
A: Amen.

SPIRITUAL COMMUNION

The Lord’s Prayer 

Spiritual Communion 

A: Jesus, I know and believe in your real presence in the Most Holy Sacrament of the Eucharist. It is you I desire to love and receive above all things. As I am unable to receive your sacramental presence now, come and be with me in heart and soul. Let my entire self be united with you as I welcome you again and know your loving embrace. Amen.

Post Spiritual Communion Reflection

Lord, 
it is easy to get indignant at James and John
for clamouring for position and honour.
And then I recall the times 
when I sought to get places of honour 
when I strove for power and prestige.
I am no different from the rulers in our society,
or other important people who like to make their authority felt.
Lord, help me realise that this should never happen among us
because to be great or important 
is to be at the service of all.

CONCLUDING RITE

Concluding Prayer

L: Our God and Father, your Son made himself our servant. May he dispose us to become powerless and vulnerable, so that we can serve one another, especially the weakest of our brothers and sisters. Through Christ our Lord.
A: Amen.

Blessing

L: The Lord bless us, protect us from all evil, and lead us to everlasting life.
A: Amen.

L: Go in the peace of Christ.
A: Thanks be to God.

Conclude with a hymn. For instance:

12 October 2024

XXVIII Sunday of the Year

QUENCHING THE THIRST FOR “MORE”


INTRODUCTORY RITES

Gather as a family/ community; create an environment appropriate for prayer (dress appropriately - switch off your phones...). 
We are conscious that Christ is present not only in the Blessed Sacrament but also in the Scriptures and in our hearts. Even when we are on our own, we remain part of the Body of Christ.
Place lighted candles, a crucifix, and the Bible on a covered table. These remind us of the sacredness of our time of prayer and could help us feel connected with our local worshipping communities.

You may sing or play an appropriate hymn. For instance:
The Sign of the Cross

Greeting and Introductory Words

L: The Lord invites us to the table of his Word: let us bless him for his goodness.
A: Blessed be God forever.

L: Television shows like “Kaun Banega Crorepati” and “Minute to Win It” are based on the contestants’ skills and spirit of adventure, and on the human desire for “more”. Contestants are willing to gamble on their knowledge and skill to get that extra money. “Yeh Dil Maange More” is not just a tagline for a popular soft drink; it is a tagline for humans: all of us want more.
We pray that we may quench our thirst for more in God and his love.

Penitential Rite

L: For the moments when we tried to fill our emptiness with everything and everyone but God, we ask his pardon.
        Pause

L: Lord Jesus, you are the Wisdom of God,
more precious that every treasure in the world: Lord, have mercy.
A: Lord, have mercy.
L: Lord Jesus, you are the Word of God, 
living and effective, sharper than any two-edged sword: Christ, have mercy.
A: Christ, have mercy.
L: Lord Jesus, you invite us to give up our possessions 
and to follow youLord, have mercy.
A: Lord, have mercy.

L: May almighty God have mercy on us, forgive us our sins,
and bring us to everlasting life.
A: Amen.

Gloria
Opening Prayer

L: God of wisdom, whose word probes our motives, with you all things are possible. Let worldly treasure not keep us from Jesus, who looks on us with love. Free us to leave all things and follow him, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, God for ever and ever.
A: Amen.

THE LITURGY OF THE WORD

Readings

The readings are those assigned for the day in the Lectionary.
Preferably use a Bible/ Lectionary for reading.


Reading 1    Wisdom 7:7-11
Psalm         Psalm 90:12-13, 14-15, 16-17
Response    Fill us with your love, O Lord, and we will sing for joy! 
                Response 1 or Response 2
Reading 2 Hebrews 4:12-13
Acclamation
                        Alleluia, alleluia.
                        Blessed are the poor in spirit,
                        for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
                  Acclamation
Gospel         Mark 10:17-30
Reflection on the Readings
 
Use one of the following ways to reflect on the readings.

Lectio Divina

Imagine you are with Jesus when the young man approaches him. What are your thoughts and feelings when you hear his interaction with Jesus?

Sunday Snippets

In The Success Syndrome, Steven Berglas writes that individuals who “suffer” from success crave more. 
He cites the case of Dennis Levine, who was convicted of insider trading in the 1980s. Levine did not need the money from insider trading but said that when his income was $100,000, he hungered for $200,000; when he was making $1 million, he hungered for $3 million. Berglas comments: “People, who find that $200,000 did not make them happy, strangely never ask themselves why they thought $300,000 would make them happy… but keep craving for more.” 

None of us are big-league cravers, but all of us are constantly seeking more. This desire for “more” is at the heart of today’s liturgy.

The young man in the gospel comes to Jesus seeking something more. He has kept the commandments and led a righteous life. Deep down he knows something is missing. How can he fill this void? Jesus’ solution: “Go, sell what you have, and give to the poor…; then come follow me.” 
But the man fails in his quest for “more” on three counts: 
First, he had many possessions. He is “rich” not because he is wealthy but because he is dependent on himself and his resources. 
Second, he lived selfishly. He was rich but was unwilling to share his resources.
Third, he fails to understand the incomparable grace of following Jesus. He is unlike Solomon, who (in the first reading) discovers that Wisdom is superior to all else in his life.

Like Dennis Levine and the young man, we constantly want more. 
How do I quench this desire for more: with people? with things? with gadgets and gizmos? with habits and addictions? What are my “possessions”? 

Today’s liturgy reminds us that our craving for “more” can be satisfied only by God.
Berglas’ prescription for a cure for the success syndrome: “What’s missing in these people is deep commitment or religious activity that goes far beyond just writing a check to a charity.” What’s missing, in a word, is God!
Blaise Pascal puts this beautifully: “There is a vacuum in the heart of every man [and woman]; a God-shaped vacuum which cannot be filled by any created thing, but only by God, the Creator, made known through Jesus”!

May I allow God to fill the vacuum in my heart; may I quench my thirst for more with him and his love.

Questions to Ponder

Reflect on some (or all) of the following questions:

Reading 1If I were given a choice, what would I choose: prudence or “sceptre and throne”? 

Reading 2: Do motives and attitude colour my decision-making? Are my motives/ in good order, or could they use a realignment?

Gospel: What are my “possessions”? Are possessions themselves the difficulty, or is it clinging to them? Or is the problem the inner drive to own and accumulate? How can I control/channelise this drive?
Can the unbridled desire to possess be an obstacle to world peace or ecological sustainability? How?  

The Creed

Prayer of the Faithful

L: Let us pray to God for the wisdom to appreciate his gifts and the grace to use them for the good of all: Lord, hear our prayer.

R: For the Church: that we may experience God looking upon us with love and respond generously to what he asks of us today, we pray…
R: For the Synod of Bishops: that God may guide the Church in listening to the Holy Spirit so that we may deepen our communion and be more faithful to the mission of evangelization and reconciliation, we pray…
R: For the leaders of nations: that God may give them wisdom to ponder world events and courage to address crucial issues for the common good, we pray…
R: For all who are ill: that God may heal the sick, strengthen those facing a long recovery, and renew all who are caring for them, we pray…
R: For commitment to care for our common home: that we may each take responsibility for the quality of the air and water that affects every person, we pray…
R: For ourselves: that we may recognize the limits of power, beauty, fame, and wealth, and learn to trust God who alone fulfils all our needs and wants, we pray…

L: God and Father, we pray not for riches but for trust, not for power but for courage, not for pleasure but for joy, not for pretence but for integrity. Make us wise with your wisdom. Through Christ our Lord.
A: Amen.

SPIRITUAL COMMUNION

The Lord’s Prayer 

Spiritual Communion 

A: Jesus, I know and believe in your real presence in the Most Holy Sacrament of the Eucharist. It is you I desire to love and receive above all things. As I am unable to receive your sacramental presence now, come and be with me in heart and soul. Let my entire self be united with you as I welcome you again and know your loving embrace. Amen.

Post Spiritual Communion Reflection

Lord, 
everything I treasure and hold dear 
may I gladly hand over to you 
for an ounce of your precious wisdom,
for your Word which cuts through my clutter,
reads my moods and motives, and bares my secrets.
Look upon me and love me.

Grant me the grace 
to give freely to the needy;
to cling not to possessions and power and people
but to you, who are my everything.
May I cherish the gifts you have given me, 
and give them back in service to you and your people.
May I quench my thirst for more in you and your love.


CONCLUDING RITE

Concluding Prayer

L: Lord our God, you give the first place in your kingdom to the last and the least; you call the poor rich and blessed. Give us, we pray you, the wisdom of living for the things that matter and following your Son on the road to you and to our neighbour.
Through Christ our Lord.
A: Amen.

Blessing

L: The Lord bless us, protect us from all evil, and lead us to everlasting life.
A: Amen.

L: Go in the peace of Christ.
A: Thanks be to God.

Conclude with a hymn. For instance:

05 October 2024

XXVII Sunday of the Year

STAY COMMITTED

INTRODUCTORY RITES

Gather as a family/ community; create an environment appropriate for prayer (dress appropriately - switch off your phones...). 
We are conscious that Christ is present not only in the Blessed Sacrament but also in the Scriptures and in our hearts. Even when we are on our own, we remain part of the Body of Christ.
Place lighted candles, a crucifix, and the Bible on a covered table. These remind us of the sacredness of our time of prayer and could help us feel connected with our local worshipping communities.

You may sing or play an appropriate hymn. For instance:
The Sign of the Cross

Greeting and Introductory Words

L: The Lord invites us to the table of his Word: let us bless him for his goodness.
A: Blessed be God forever.

L: People tend to think that artists produce their works in bursts of creative energy. Beethoven rewrote each bar of his music at least a dozen times. For the “Last Judgment,” Michelangelo produced more than 2,000 sketches/renderings in the eight years it took to complete his masterpiece. Anything of lasting value requires patient commitment and in the face of adversity. 
 Marriage, religious life, and the priesthood are of lasting value! These need patient commitment. We pray for all in committed relationships for grace and courage to stay committed.

Penitential Rite

L: We ask the Lord to forgive us for our failures in our commitments.
        Pause

L: Lord Jesus, you were committed to your Father in total obedience
even to death on the Cross: Lord, have mercy.
A: Lord, have mercy.
L: Lord Jesus, you were committed to seeking and saving the lost,
  and you gave up your life for us: Christ, have mercy.
A: Christ, have mercy.
L: Lord Jesus, you were committed to your mission,
and put up with difficultiesLord, have mercy.
A: Lord, have mercy.

L: May almighty God have mercy on us, forgive us our sins,
and bring us to everlasting life.
A: Amen.

Gloria
Opening Prayer

L: Creator God, you created man and woman in your image. Heal our hardened hearts, renew our obedience to your spoken will, and conform our lives to your design. Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, God for ever and ever.
A: Amen.

THE LITURGY OF THE WORD

Readings

The readings are those assigned for the day in the Lectionary.
Preferably use a Bible/ Lectionary for reading.


Reading 1    Genesis 2:18-24
Psalm         Psalm 128:1-2, 3, 4-5, 6
Response    May the Lord bless us all the days of our lives. 
                Response 1 or Response 2
Reading 2 Hebrews 2:9-11
Acclamation
                        Alleluia, alleluia.
                        If we love one another, God remains in us
                        and his love is brought to perfection in us.
                  Acclamation
Gospel         Mark 10:2-16 or (shorter form) 10:2-12
Reflection on the Readings
 
Use one of the following ways to reflect on the readings.

Lectio Divina

Imagine you are with Jesus when the Pharisees question him. What are your thoughts and feelings when you hear the question and when you hear Jesus’ response?

Sunday Snippets

The elderly couple in the check-out line were talking about their upcoming golden wedding anniversary. The young cashier piped in: “I can’t imagine being married to same man for 50 years!” The wife replied: “Well, honey, until you can… don’t get married!”

This little exchange conveys what marriage is: two people—not only imagining—but also and especially deciding and pledging to stay in a relationship forever. Marriage is a commitment. So are religious life and the priesthood!

This is the core of today’s first reading and gospel.
In response to the Pharisees’ question about the legality of divorce, Jesus argues that Moses’ permission for husbands to divorce (cf. Deuteronomy 24:1-4) was “because of the hardness of your hearts.” 
He, then, turns to the biblical ideal of marriage, as God intended it “from the beginning of creation”. In God’s plan (cf. first reading), marriage is not about male superiority/rights, but a communion of love between complementary partners who become one flesh. This oneness is not only a union of bodies, but also a union of minds, hearts, and wills.
This love reflects God’s love; it is a commitment with a beginning and no end. 

Love-commitment is difficult because it means loving the other as she/he is; it does not redesign a person. 
There will be problems in marriage. Pope Francis alluded to these when he said: “Families have difficulties. Families will quarrel. Sometimes plates fly. And children bring headaches. I don’t want to speak about mothers-in-law… but difficulties are overcome by love.”

There are four p’s to overcome this mega “p”:
- be positive: appreciate and affirm the other; 
- be polite: show respect and courtesy, be careful about what-how-when-where we say things;
- be playful: make fun and humour a mainstay in relationships; 
- be prayerful: spend time praying together.

What will I do to stay committed?
On a lighter note, someone asked Henry Ford on his fiftieth wedding anniversary for his rule for marital bliss and longevity: “Just the same as in the automobile business: stick to one model.”

Questions to Ponder

Reflect on some (or all) of the following questions:

Reading 1What would I say to a person who thinks the superiority of men over women is divinely revealed in this text? What do I do in situations where women and men are not treated as equals?

Reading 2: Jesus called us sisters and brothers. How does this influence my attitude towards people? Do I treat all people with the same respect?

Gospel: The Pharisees and the disciples question Jesus about divorce. He answers: “whoever divorces his wife commits adultery.” But he also reminds them about Moses permitting “husbands to write bill of divorce.” What might these two ideas say to the Church today?  

The Creed

Prayer of the Faithful

L: Let us pray to God our Father that he may complete in us his work of love and faithfulness: Lord, hear our prayer.

R: For the Church: that we may be a sign of communion between God and humanity and a means of reconciliation amongst all people, we pray…
R: For the leaders of nations: that God may give them wisdom and courage to address crucial issues of society and to work together to address the common good, we pray…
R: For all married/engaged couples: that they may recognize Christ in each other, grow into true oneness of life, and bring God’s love to others, we pray…
R: For all who are in lonely or troubled marriages: that they may find support in the Christian community and receive strength and courage to work to renew their relationships, we pray…
R: For all who have experienced divorce: that God may heal their pain, renew their sense of self, and help them find support and understanding in our community, we pray…
R: For commitment to care for our common home: that through God’s grace we may hear its cry of the damage done and be moved to protect it for future generations to enjoy, we pray…
R: For ourselves: that we may be faithful to our promises and commitments, to spouses, children, parents, communities, and friends, we pray…

L: Our God and Father, be present with all your faithfulness wherever people come together to build communities of love and friendship. Build with us, that our love may endure, now and always. Through Christ our Lord.
A: Amen.

SPIRITUAL COMMUNION

The Lord’s Prayer 

Spiritual Communion 

A: Jesus, I know and believe in your real presence in the Most Holy Sacrament of the Eucharist. It is you I desire to love and receive above all things. As I am unable to receive your sacramental presence now, come and be with me in heart and soul. Let my entire self be united with you as I welcome you again and know your loving embrace. Amen.

Post Spiritual Communion Reflection

You are love, O God.
You three have loved each other so much 
that you are one.

Let us too be not alone,
but at one
with the whole created universe,
especially one with each other,
all together in the fullness of your love.
May each of us
remain faithful to our commitment.
May each of us 
keep striving to mirror in our lives 
the loving unity of the Trinity.


CONCLUDING RITE

Concluding Prayer

L: Our God and Father you have entrusted love to us not as a finished product but as an assignment for life. Let the love of your Son invest our love with fidelity and generosity, that it may weather all storms and keep growing in depth, until you crown it with your joy.
Through Christ our Lord.
A: Amen.

Blessing

L: The Lord bless us, protect us from all evil, and lead us to everlasting life.
A: Amen.

L: Go in the peace of Christ.
A: Thanks be to God.

Conclude with a hymn. For instance: